If marriage has become optional, let’s try to understand why

Many younger people are avoiding marriage and putting off having children. It is important to acknowledge what they are thinking.

Society has traditionally placed marriage, and then having children, as central to one’s life. PHOTO ILLUSTRATION: PIXABAY
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There is a game that my wife and I like to play. We ask each other: “Would you remarry after I die, and who?” Husbands, please note: The correct answer is always “I would never remarry”, and you should certainly not follow up that statement with “because once is enough”.

I have very much enjoyed being married – 2024 will be our 15th wedding anniversary, but it appears that marriage is becoming more of an option than a necessity in people’s lives.

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