Tearful final farewell for late NSF Dave Lee at military funeral

The cortege left the family's home at about 1.25pm for Mandai Crematorium.
The cortege left the family's home at about 1.25pm for Mandai Crematorium.ST PHOTO: LIM YAOHUI
The cortege left the family's home at about 1.25pm for Mandai Crematorium.
The cortege left the family's home at about 1.25pm for Mandai Crematorium.ST PHOTO: LIM YAOHUI
The cortege left the family's home at about 1.25pm for Mandai Crematorium.
The cortege left the family's home at about 1.25pm for Mandai Crematorium.ST PHOTO: LIM YAOHUI
The cortege leaving the wake after family, friends and army officers paid their last respects to Corporal First Class Dave Lee Han Xuan.
The cortege leaving the wake after family, friends and army officers paid their last respects to Corporal First Class Dave Lee Han Xuan.ST PHOTO: LIM YAOHUI
The cortege left the family's home at about 1.25pm for Mandai Crematorium.
The cortege left the family's home at about 1.25pm for Mandai Crematorium.ST PHOTO: LIM YAOHUI
The parents of the Corporal First Class Dave Lee Han Xuan, Madam Jasmine Yeo and Mr Dennis Lee, grieve at the wake.
The parents of the Corporal First Class Dave Lee Han Xuan, Madam Jasmine Yeo and Mr Dennis Lee, grieve at the wake. ST PHOTO: LIM YAOHUI
Army officers queue to pay their last respects to Corporal First Class Dave Lee Han Xuan.
Army officers queue to pay their last respects to Corporal First Class Dave Lee Han Xuan. ST PHOTO: LIM YAOHUI
Army officers queue to pay their last respects to Corporal First Class Dave Lee Han Xuan.
Army officers queue to pay their last respects to Corporal First Class Dave Lee Han Xuan.ST PHOTO: LIM YAOHUI
Friends and family members of the late Corporal First Class Dave Lee gathered at the wake held at CFC Lee's home in Jurong East.
Friends and family members of the late Corporal First Class Dave Lee gathered at the wake held at CFC Lee's home in Jurong East.ST PHOTO: LIM YAOHUI
Friends and family members of the late Corporal First Class Dave Lee gather at the wake held at CFC Lee's home in Jurong East.
Friends and family members of the late Corporal First Class Dave Lee gather at the wake held at CFC Lee's home in Jurong East.ST PHOTO: LIM YAOHUI

SINGAPORE - For years, Madam Jasmine Yeo, the mother of the late national serviceman Dave Lee Han Xuan, often imagined what it would be like to give a speech at her son’s wedding – a few words for him “to remember me for life.”

“(Little) did I know I would be delivering Dave’s in this manner,” she said on Saturday afternoon (May 5).

In a packed service hall in Mandai Crematorium, attended by about 200 family members and friends, and 700 military personnel, Madam Yeo said her son’s death calls for reformation to the training regime.

“The definition of turnouts should be duly defined. Outdated traditional ‘tekan’ or punishment sessions should be put to an immediate stop. Heatstroke kills, so put all possible measures to counter it. It is not to be taken lightly,” she said.

Madam Yeo was referring to allegations made online about a turnout that Corporal First Class Lee was said to have gone through. However, this has not been officially confirmed by the authorities.

“If I have to sacrifice my only son to bring this message across, make sure it is one that brings forth solid changes to seemingly perfect training systems," she added.

CFC Lee, 19, died on Monday (April 30), close to two weeks after being admitted to Changi General Hospital for heatstroke. He later received a posthumous promotion from private to corporal first class.

Mindef said a Committee of Inquiry has been convened to look into his death, while police investigations are also ongoing.

On Saturday, Madam Yeo also urged commanders not to forget that “your mission is to train soldiers against enemies and most importantly for them to return home safe and sound to their loved ones.”

She told her son’s comrades not to “be sad after today”, but to assure their parents by ensuring their own safety during trainings, and texting their parents regularly.

 
 

Four others gave a eulogy at the funeral: Yuhua Secondary classmate Andrez Lee, Jurong Junior College classmate Lim Le Ming, Basic Military Training platoon mate Ronald Tan, and Major Danny Poh, Commanding Officer of 1st Battalion Singapore Guards.

Together, they painted a picture of a loyal friend who was the life of the party, a hard worker always willing to lend a helping hand, and a soldier who could always be counted on to lift the spirits of others.

Major Poh said Dave struck him as someone who lived courageously, constantly strove to do his best and always had his friends’ backs – all marks of a good soldier.

But what had the greatest impact of all was CFC Lee’s strong sense of filial piety.

“Family was Dave’s centre of gravity,” he said.