What’s the best or worst date you’ve ever been on? These are what young Singaporeans had to say
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(Clockwise from left) Ms Melody Wee and Ms Clarissa Chin shared their best date experiences, while Mr Tarick Yap shared his worst date.
PHOTOS: COURTESY OF MELODY WEE, CLARISSA CHIN AND TARICK YAP
Li Ziping, Shannon Seng and Tong Ye Tao
The TLDR: Is love really in the air? This Valentine’s Day, young people share the worst and best dates they have ever been on, from romantic picnics to staring at phones throughout the meal.
The Worst
Third wheel to a screen
Ms Shahina Sirajuden’s date was using his phone at the table.
PHOTO: COURTESY OF SHAHINA SIRAJUDEN
“We were at McDonald’s. I wanted to talk to him, but he wouldn’t talk to me properly. I got pretty annoyed because he was using his phone at the table. I remember bringing this up. But I don’t think he found it wrong. It wasn’t even (other) girls, I’m pretty sure it was (random) stuff. Like, I’m more interesting than that.” — Ms Shahina Sirajuden, 19, Temasek Polytechnic
A bad first impression
Mr Tarick Yap’s date made him wait for three hours.
PHOTO: COURTESY OF TARICK YAP
“I’ve never met her before, so it was the first date. We were planning to go somewhere fancy, but she made me wait for three hours, and she also came in a T-shirt with shorts and slippers which was a very bad (sloppy) look. It gave a bad impression.” — Mr Tarick Yap Jun Kai, 19, ITE College Central
Showing signs
Ms Nurul Syazwani Mohamad Azlan (second from left) and her boyfriend broke up a week after the date.
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“The worst date I’ve been on was when I had dinner with my ex-boyfriend. He collected our food and slammed it on the table and I had to eat almost everything. He was using his phone the whole time. I was talking to him, asking him what he was doing and he just ignored me. I was crying while other people were staring at me. We broke up like one week after that. I think he lost feelings because he found another girlfriend one week later.” — Ms Nurul Syazwani Mohamad Azlan, 18, Temasek Polytechnic
The Best
Meeting face-to-face
Ms Clarissa Chin went to Lakeside Garden for her first date with her boyfriend.
PHOTO: COURTESY OF CLARISSA CHIN
“I (got to know) my boyfriend online. When I first met him, we went to Lakeside Garden and walked around… It felt like a very successful date. Thank god I didn’t get scammed. Now we’re nearing our sixth year anniversary.” — Ms Clarissa Laura Chin, 18, ITE Central
A day together
Mr Jovin Tan’s girlfriend said she loved him after the date.
PHOTO: COURTESY OF JOVIN TAN
“The best date that I had so far was when I took (my girlfriend) out to go shopping, to Orchard. (We went to the) museum and went sightseeing. After we went out the whole day, I took her home, and then she told me ‘I love you’. That kind of hit my heart.” — Mr Jovin Tan, 18, ITE central
Well-prepared surprise
Ms Melody Wee with her flowers.
PHOTO: COURTESY OF MELODY WEE
“On my birthday, my boyfriend surprised me with handmade pipe cleaner flowers and a picnic to see the lights at MBS. It was super cute. He carried everything even though it was very heavy.” — Ms Melody Wee, 18, Nanyang Polytechnic
The writers are students from Dunman High School who interned with the ST Schools team, which produces TL;DR.
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