Surprise... a small broken mirror reflects outpouring of goodwill

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Kiss92 radio DJ Maddy Barber, seen here with (clockwise from top left) Mr Mei Jie Xiang, who traded the handmade teak wood desk set for her broken side-view mirror, and her colleagues Divian Nair and Andre Hoeden. Mr Hoeden is also a presenter and ex

Kiss92 radio DJ Maddy Barber, seen here with (clockwise from top left) Mr Mei Jie Xiang, who traded the handmade teak wood desk set for her broken side-view mirror, and her colleagues Divian Nair and Andre Hoeden. Mr Hoeden is also a presenter and executive producer of Ms Barber's radio show.

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Kiss92 radio DJ Maddy Barber was annoyed when she found her car side-view mirror knocked cleanly off: till she found an apology note.
The note was from truck driver Mr Wang Yaowen, who had just started work at his new job. He had sideswiped her car that was parked along Seng Poh Road in Tiong Bahru last Thursday, and had left her a note with his apologies and contact details.
She was moved when she called Mr Wang, who sincerely apologised and seemed like a "decent, stand-up guy". She said: "There was so much sincerity, goodness and honesty in his voice. Mr Wang took full responsibility for the accident and gave no excuses. I heard that he was new to Singapore, and I decided to let it go. I just couldn't make him pay for the repairs."
Rather than asking for compensation, Ms Barber decided to do something for Mr Wang instead. Inspired by a TikTok challenge, she and her Kiss92 team announced a "trade-up project" that very day, welcoming submissions from listeners for items that they would swop for her broken side-view mirror. The idea is that each trade sees Ms Barber get an item of higher value.
Offers streamed in from listeners for that first trade on Monday, which included a big bottle of Nutella, a used umbrella, a grocery voucher, and even a hug and a kiss.
In the end, Ms Barber traded her broken mirror for a brand-new handmade teak wood desk set worth over $450, from Mr Mei Jie Xiang, the owner of Papa Vanture's, a logistics firm .
Then came a surprise: BMW offered to do a free repair for her car.
Ms Barber and her co-hosts plan to continue with this trade-up project over the next weeks. The item from the final trade will be gifted to Mr Wang. "If people continue to trade up, we'll see where it goes: maybe it could lead you to something big and unexpected," she said.
Producers at Kiss92 told The Straits Times they wanted to see if they could convert something like Ms Barber's broken side-view mirror into something of significant value. "This project showed us that honesty pays. Mr Wang was let off the hook because he was apologetic and sincere. Maddy was surprised by BMW with the free repairs, and we are learning that Kiss fans are the most generous people in the country," said Mr Andre Hoeden, presenter and executive producer of Ms Barber's radio show.
"We all know someone who is suffering in this difficult period and such a feel-good project will surely put a smile on someone's face or a warm fuzzy feeling in their hearts. We live for moments like these to make others happy," he added.
For Ms Barber, her good intentions have also come full circle with a happy twist of sorts in BMW's offer, so it's been a really good start to the project.
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