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Sorry, not sorry: Tips on teaching your kids to apologise

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Mr Muhd Iruan Karaman, 46, Cyber Security Specialist (dad) with his daughter, Nur Sarah Alia Muhd Iruan, 11 (white top) 



/Do parents need to apologise to their kids? Aren't parents always right? Experts say the act of saying sorry helps the family build a stronger relationship, but be careful not to overdo it. 
Please take photo of this couple with their 5 kids aged 9 to 17. Beside the usual happy family portraits, please ask them to role-play. Either the mum Siti Noraisyah or dad Muhammad Iruan can hold their fourth child Sarah Alia's hand and say sorry to her, while the rest look on with a smile.

Mr Muhammad Iruan Karaman with his daughter Sarah Alia. Parents have to guide their children how to apologise sincerely.

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SINGAPORE – When a nine-year-old boy was asked to apologise to his friend for saying something hurtful, he did so but then threw in a vulgarity.

Ms Josephine Loh from Morning Star Community Services cites the case as an example of forcing a child to say sorry when he has not calmed down.

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