SINGAPORE - Madam Emma was in dire straits when her late husband fell terminally ill - and desperate for a helping hand.
She had two young children to look after but with no job and her husband too sick to work, there was no money for diapers or other necessities.
"It was not easy to bring up two kids alone," said Madam Emma (not her real name). "I just felt like I wanted to run away from all these problems that I have."
"I just prayed, 'God, please, if there is someone who can guide me, who can take care of me. Give it to me'."
That much-needed helping hand did turn up - in the form of Cheng San Family Service Centre, which conducted home visits, helped her get subsidies for her children's school fees and assisted her through her husband's death.
"I was so touched when (my social worker) came down to visit my late husband at Assisi Hospice," she said.
Madam Emma is one of the 30,000 families and individuals helped by family service centres like Cheng San each year.
These centres are usually the first stop for people who need social support or information and referral services.
Many are single parents, vulnerable or reconstituted families who seek help for matters such as financial advice, domestic violence and housing issues.
The invaluable role these groups perform in the community came into sharper focus on Tuesday (April 30) with the staging of Family Service Centre Sector Advance, a forum for those in the sector to discuss progress and ways to move forward.
There are 47 such centres across the island, a striking increase from when the idea took root around 30 years ago in the form of a pilot project.
They have grown from providing basic social assistance in public housing, education, healthcare, security and jobs to include more upstream help as well as greater coordination by physically co-locating complementary services.
For example, the Taman Jurong Social Service Office, which helps needy families, shares a working space with Fei Yue Family Service Centre, the Agency for Integrated Care and the Singapore Anti-Narcotics Association.
Social and Family Development Minister Desmond Lee told the gathering that the sector is working together to "form a more integrated and responsive social safety net to provide comprehensive, convenient and coordinated help".
Ms See Toh Huixia, assistant director of charity Awwa, noted: "Over the years there has been a lot more effort to enhance collaboration.
"There might be challenges when various agencies or services work together, for example in coordinating the information and services.
"But we come together to understand the needs of the family. When we put the family first, that makes work a lot easier."
