Why we need to give dad more than a mug and a card this Father’s Day

We must normalise the role of fathers as involved parents and signal that we expect it of them.

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The writer's husband and twin boys. Caregiving by dads needs to be treated as normal and Father's Day should not be an afterthought, says the writer.  ST PHOTO: VANESSA PAIGE CHELVAN

The writer's husband and twin boys. Caregiving by dads needs to be treated as normal and Father's Day should not be an afterthought, says the writer.

ST PHOTO: VANESSA PAIGE CHELVAN

As a mum, I’ve noticed something year after year – Father’s Day rarely gets the same attention as Mother’s Day.

Think about it. Mother’s Day, on the second Sunday of May, often arrives with weeks of planning – brunch reservations, flower deliveries, spa vouchers and touching tributes on Instagram.

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