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When you start missing the good times before they actually end
It is called anticipatory nostalgia, and it is not always a bad thing.
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If you have ever felt melancholy towards the end of your vacation, or become pensive about an impending farewell, you are not alone. There is even a term to sum up how you might be feeling – anticipatory nostalgia, or the sense of missing something before it is over.
As a child, I recall feeling towards the end of family trips a pang I could not name, knowing only that I yearned to extend this carefree time a little longer. Growing up, I remember keenly how I felt during various long-distance relationships, driven to tears far ahead of the actual parting.
