The year-end gathering and the dysfunctional family

Small, mundane acts of kindness rather than big, sweeping gestures may be the way to reconnect with loved ones

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The problem of families simply drifting apart is becoming more of an issue.

The problem of families simply drifting apart is becoming more of an issue.

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Terence Heng

Family gatherings used to be the glue that kept people together, no matter how brief or vague the encounter. 

Take traditional year-end festivities for example. We might find ourselves meeting individuals whom we know little of other than their sequence of birth: “This is your great-grandmother’s sixth daughter’s second son’s daughter. I’m sure you remember her from that party six months ago.” 

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