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The places where grief teaches us about who we are

And memorialising those who have passed is an important social and cultural process.

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An NEA officer demonstrating the scattering of ashes – sand was used in this demonstration – at the Garden of Peace. The facility was developed in response to interest expressed by the public for such practices to be made available in Singapore.

Scholars have shown that we need to see grief as more than a phase, but as part of a longer social and cultural process of remembrance and memorialising, reflecting who we are and how we have changed as a society.

ST PHOTO: NG SOR LUAN

Terence Heng

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It has been more than a decade since I started my research into Chinese religion and spirituality in Singapore. 

From Bukit Brown Cemetery to our annual Hungry Ghost Festival, I have witnessed a great number of

rituals, events, processions

and spaces dedicated to remembering the dead. 

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