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Taylor Swift, Selena Gomez and why fans love a vulnerable starlet 

The impulse to share their woes is certainly in line with a noted increase in mental health issues – and a heightened awareness and openness about those challenges

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Taylor Swift (left) and Selena Gomez are not perfect. Nor do they pretend to be.

Taylor Swift (left) and Selena Gomez are not perfect. Nor do they pretend to be.

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Pamela Paul

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By most measures, Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift are remarkable women. Intelligent and capable, they’ve succeeded through innate talent, hard and sustained work, ambition and vision. Both are the kind of mega pop stars who inspire convulsions of adulation and tears. Crowds surge and part in their presence. They are graced with a radiance that seems almost exclusive to celebrities, with skin so incandescent it needs no filter.

But they are not perfect. Nor, importantly, do they pretend to be. A recent Apple TV+ documentary, Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me, offers an unsparing portrait of Gomez, now 30, and her experiences with bipolar disorder, lupus, anxiety and psychosis. On her latest album, Midnights, Swift, 32, sings about her depression working the graveyard shift, about ending up in crisis. “It’s me, hi, I’m the problem, it’s me / It’s me, hi, everybody agrees, everybody agrees,” goes the song “Anti-Hero.” “Sometimes I feel like everybody is a sexy baby / And I’m a monster.”

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