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Can you truly tell mixed-race kids that their colour doesn’t matter?

Singapore is not colour-blind. But whenever we hear a racial slur, we should not let it go unchallenged.

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The writer's newborn twins in 2020. While pregnant, she was asked what colour her babies would be.

The writer's newborn twins in 2020. While pregnant, she was asked what colour her babies would be.

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SINGAPORE – As a mother of mixed-race children, I knew the day would come when I would have to explain to my twin boys why our family is not the same colour.

We were at a playground a few months ago when one of my sons ran up to me, arms outstretched. “Mama?” he asked, his tone unsure.

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