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Spare a thought for those unhappy, entitled Singaporeans

We see inconsiderate behaviour all around us. Let’s look into the mirror and ask where this stems from.

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Entitlement shows up everywhere, often in less obvious ways that we have come to accept as everyday irritations.

Entitlement shows up everywhere, often in less obvious ways that we have come to accept as everyday irritations.

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I often hear peers complain that their younger colleagues are entitled. Some familiar grouses: They are unwilling to hustle, expect to be spoon-fed, overly focused on work-life balance, quick to complain – or quit – after a scolding, and demand flexibility without corresponding effort or thought.

Some of these gripes are not entirely without basis. At 44, I belong to a generation that hustled to get ahead. Working until 3am or through the weekend to get a report out was routine. Meanwhile, being yelled at for a poorly executed job was unpleasant, but pushing back was rarely an option.

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