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Should you say ‘thank you’ to ChatGPT?

If we don’t watch our manners with machines, we may forget to treat people with respect, too.

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If we don’t watch our manners with machines we may forget to treat people with respect, too, says the writer.

If we don’t watch our manners with machines, we may forget to treat people with respect, too, says the writer.

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Stephen Bush

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During one Passover visit to see my American cousins, I was taken aback when, having asked Alexa to play music, her response to me saying “please” was a surprisingly flirtatious commentary on my good manners.

I don’t say “please” to a smart speaker because I think that the sound system’s feelings will be hurt otherwise. I do it because the rule that when you ask for something, you should say please, has been so ingrained in me that it has become a muscle memory.

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