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Parents, please chill – your stress spreads to your kids

We need to understand how adult anxiety shapes children’s behaviour, and what we can do about it.

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We need to understand how adult anxiety shapes children’s behaviour, and what we can do about it, says the writer.

We need to understand how adult anxiety shapes children’s behaviour, and what we can do about it, says the writer.

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Hana Alhadad

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, parents like me were supposed to breathe a sigh of relief. It was meant to be fairer and less stressful. Right?

Although in my professional career I work with children and families to support those suffering from anxiety, I find myself up late googling ways to help my 11-year-old, wondering if I’m doing enough, wrestling with my own anxiety – trying not to show it. “Just do your best,” I tell my child, while my browser tabs tell a different story.

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