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Obsessed with Taylor Swift? There’s a line fans should not cross

There is a difference between being a loyal supporter and the obsessives who feel they should have a say in their idol’s lives.

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(FILES) US singer-songwriter Taylor Swift greets fans during the MTV Video Music Awards at the Prudential Center in Newark, New Jersey, on September 12, 2023. Another day, another Taylor Swift media circus: talk of the pop phenomenon is omnipresent, from her forthcoming concert film to her dating life to her wildly successful global tour. With hundreds of millions of social media followers and a staunchly loyal fan base, she can move any dial with the tiniest of efforts: late last month, Swift encouraged her fans to register to vote, directing them to the nonpartisan nonprofit Vote.org. The Swifties did not disappoint. (Photo by TIMOTHY A. CLARY / AFP)

US singer-songwriter Taylor Swift greeting fans during the MTV Video Music Awards in September.

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The relationship between a fan and his hero, between you and the movie star or sporting icon you worship should be a straightforward one. Heroes are inspiring and you aspire to be like them. If only it were that simple.

Two issues have given this relationship a twist. One is that by entering the commercial arena, pushing and endorsing products and services, celebrities have been ramping up their “personal connection” with fans. Related to this, fans think they know their idols – whom they largely see on screen – far better than they really do, become possessive about them, and even think they have a right to dictate how their heroes should lead their lives.

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