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No to ‘Tiger Mum’, ‘Daechi Omma’: Resisting the urge to be a grade-obsessed parent

Hidden beneath the facade of a gentle mum, a tiger prowls in silence, waiting for the moment to pounce and unleash a resounding roar.

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After all, we both want what is best for our children.

The Korean education system, no less rigorous and competitive compared with Singapore’s, gave rise to the “Daechi Omma”.

PHOTO ILLUSTRATION: PEXELS

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I have a confession to make – I am a closet Tiger Mum. 

I want to highlight the word “closet”, because I am generally an easygoing mother who treats her child like a friend and gives her time to do what she likes. 

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