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Letter to my 15-year-old self: It’s okay not to be cool

Now a decade older, I have learnt to accept myself, warts and all

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The cruelty of high school is not news.

The cruelty of high school is not news.

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Dear Shermaine,
I’m turning 25 next month – can you believe it? I’m a quarter-century in. So much has changed, and at the same time nothing has changed. Life is whizzing by – they say time passes faster as you age.

But for you, I know some days feel like a lifetime. Especially those when you are hiding at the library before your CCA (co-curricular activity) – the library club, naturally – because your two friends couldn’t hang out with you.

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