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It’s all good, and you’re perfect
Our emotional expressions have been taken to extremes too.
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It is hard not to see mindless optimism as an effort to balance the forceful nastiness and negativity of social media, says the writer.
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Pamela Paul
Recently I’ve been told that I’m perfect, something I’m perfectly aware I’ve never been nor ever will be.
This generous assessment has come from strangers when I apologise for bumping into them, and from the exceedingly cheerful salespeople at the store where my daughter shops for clothes. “No, you’re perfect!” they’ll insist when I explain the need to rest my Gen X weariness on the fitting room floor, where a modest “No problem” would have sufficed.
