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I can’t abide the smell of durian. Buying it is my way of saying ‘I love you’

More than a simple act of gift-giving, it is a legacy to my late grandfather.

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Just five years ago, it was absolutely inconceivable that durian would figure so heavily in the writers' life. But back in 2021, her grandfather changed all that.

Just five years ago, it was absolutely inconceivable that durian would figure so heavily in the writers' life. But back in 2021, her grandfather changed all that.

ST ILLUSTRATION: CEL GULAPA

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The surprise is usually delivered in a humble plastic bag late in the evening after our children are asleep. Boxes of bittersweet, rich ochre durian flesh, vacuum-sealed to retain its freshness.

My husband beams and tells me, “you shouldn’t have”. But a box is immediately opened, and the distinctive aroma – or odour, depending on the kind of person you are – soon fills the house.

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