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Hear Me Out: Moving out is not Western rebellion – it’s Asian survival

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As she approached her 30s, the writer felt that moving out would be beneficial for herself.

As she approached her 30s, the writer felt that moving out would be beneficial for herself.

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  • Singaporean public housing policies and cultural norms often discourage young, unmarried individuals from moving out of their family homes.
  • Experts highlight the generational friction between traditional family values and the growing emphasis on individualism and personal well-being among young Singaporeans.
  • Moving out can foster independence and personal growth, but it also presents challenges like financial strain, loneliness, and potential family conflict.

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SINGAPORE – Moving out of my family home, particularly before getting married, was never on the cards for me.

Sure, I fantasised about it occasionally – usually while rage-washing dirty dishes left in the sink by my brothers “to soak” or mopping up the mini flood zones they left on the bathroom floor.

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