Kim and Moon: The heir born to rule and the escapee's son

North Korean leader Kim Jong Un (left) has lived a life of luxury while  South's President Moon Jae In's family relied on food handouts from Catholic nuns.
North Korean leader Kim Jong Un (left) has lived a life of luxury while South's President Moon Jae In's family relied on food handouts from Catholic nuns.PHOTO: AFP

SEOUL (AFP) - North Korean leader Kim Jong Un and the South's President Moon Jae In have followed paths to power as radically different as their two countries, but they will come together at a summit in the Demilitarised Zone (DMZ) on Friday (April 27).

Moon's parents were both born in a small village in Hungnam, in what is now North Korea, and his father Moon Yong Hyung graduated from an elite high school before becoming a local government agricultural official.

As the Korean War raged in late 1950 and Kim Il Sung's forces besieged the city, they were among 100,000 civilians who fled the North in the Hungnam Evacuation, one of the US military's biggest-ever civilian rescues.

Moon's mother - whose sister was left behind - gave birth to the future president in a refugee camp in Geoje, located in present-day South Korea.

Moon's well-educated but taciturn father had interest in social issues and read a literary magazine popular among intelligentsia, but had little talent in business, racking up huge debts and becoming depressed.

"Even when he opened a small store, it was at a location that everyone said would not work. He was like that all the time," Moon wrote in an autobiography.

The family relied on food handouts from Catholic nuns - Moon still describes himself as a Catholic - and his mother became the main breadwinner, running small businesses including peddling clothes on the street, while a young Moon often helped her pulling a cart full of coal briquettes.


Moon's father died aged 58 in 1978.

"He suffered all his life as a refugee and later in poverty. He had so many expectations for me but died without seeing my success. I was so heartbroken and felt so guilty," Moon later wrote.

But he inherited his father's academic abilities and social consciousness, becoming a lawyer and a human rights activist during the dictatorship of Park Chung Hee.

While in university, Moon became a student activist and was arrested for organising a protest against the dictatorial policies of then President Park Chung Hee, the father of Park Geun Hye.

While behind bars, Moon passed the bar exam in 1980.

He became a lawyer and close friends with fellow lawyer and future president Roh Moo Hyun. He was tapped by liberal president Roh to become a key aide in 2003.

The following year he accompanied his mother Kang Han Ok for a tearful reunion with her sister at Mount Kumgang, and as the president's chief of staff he attended the last inter-Korean summit in Pyongyang in 2007. His mother is now 91.

Moon's other role model Kim Dae Jung, who was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize for his "Sunshine policy" towards North Korea, had urged him to keep fighting for peace with North Korea. Soon after, Kim Dae Jung, the first South Korean leader to visit Pyongyang, was dead.

Moon lost the 2012 presidential election to Park's daughter Park Geun Hye, before she was impeached last year and he won the vote in May 2017 to succeed her.

Life of luxury

Pyongyang proclaims that Kim Jong Un's father Kim Jong Il was born at a secret guerrilla camp on Mount Baektu, a sacred site to Koreans - and in the next-door province to Hungnam.

Independent experts and Soviet records say he actually came into the world in a Siberian village where his own father Kim Il Sung was in exile.

Much of Kim Jong Un's early history is similarly surrounded in mystery - so much so that even his precise date of birth is unclear.

But he has lived a life of luxury.

Born to his father's third wife, late Japan-born ethnic Korean dancer Ko Yong Hui, Kim was sent to school in Switzerland, where he was looked after by his maternal aunt and her husband.

School staff and friends, who were reportedly unaware that he was a member of North Korea's ruling family, remembered him as a shy boy who liked skiing, Hollywood tough guy Jean-Claude Van Damme and basketball.

Kim, believed to be in his 30s, only entered the public eye in 2008 when his father suffered a stroke and Pyongyang revved up plans for the nation's second dynastic succession.

When he inherited power after his father's death in 2011, he was considered untested, vulnerable and likely to be manipulated by senior figures.

But he swiftly established his authority, having his influential uncle and mentor Jang Song Thaek executed for treason two years later.

He is also widely believed to be behind the dramatic assassination of his exiled half-brother Kim Jong Nam - with the use of a banned nerve agent - in Malaysia last year.

Kim has adopted the hairstyle, dress, mannerisms, public speaking style and even the handwriting of his grandfather, and has overseen rapid progress in the North's nuclear and ballistic missile technology.

But he remains an unknown quantity on the international stage. Until his surprise trip to key ally Beijing last month to pay his respects to President Xi Jinping - his first overseas journey since assuming the leadership - the most prominent foreigner he had met was his basketball idol Dennis Rodman.