Behind Singapore’s troubled marriages

A larger proportion of those who marry young, have a lower education or are re-marrying have ended their marriages

As she held a positive pregnancy test kit in her hands, 21-year-old Chloe Yap started thinking about what lay ahead of her.

She had always looked forward to starting a family of her own, but imagined it to happen when she was a few years older. She immediately called her partner and her parents, who greeted the news with excitement.

She said: “My parents lean towards the traditional side, so of course, marriage was the first thing that came to mind.”

“I was full of emotions. I was happy but worried at the same time, because I was not expecting to get pregnant that early. My partner and I both had always made it clear that we were dating to settle down, so we saw eye-to-eye on getting married.”

In April, she and her 22-year-old partner, full-time national serviceman, took their vows at the Registry of Marriages.

Ms Chloe Yap, 21, and her husband Tan Yan Guang, 22, tied the knot in April. PHOTO: COURTESY OF CHLOE YAP

But soon after they started their lives together, they met with a distressing setback when Ms Yap experienced a miscarriage in her fifth month of pregnancy.