SportingLife

Toughest job at the Asian Games: Being a sporting parent

Fencer Maxine Wong's father, Philip (front) and mother Chan Bee Bee (rear, with glasses and clapping), and fencer Amita Berthier's mother Uma (behind Philip) watching them during the Singapore women's foil team's 45-14 semi-final loss to China in Jak
Fencer Maxine Wong's father, Philip (front) and mother Chan Bee Bee (rear, with glasses and clapping), and fencer Amita Berthier's mother Uma (behind Philip) watching them during the Singapore women's foil team's 45-14 semi-final loss to China in Jakarta yesterday. ST PHOTO: KEVIN LIM
New: Gift this subscriber-only story to your friends and family

One stands in a corner and shouts as her child fences in Jakarta. Another sits quietly and yells infrequently. One films his daughter with shaking hands. Another shouts "Go faster!" at his son swimming on the TV.

If you look in the stands at any Games you will find them. Clutching a bag too tightly or cupping an anxious face. This is love that is always on the cusp of loss. This is joy laced with pain. This is the stoical world of the sporting parent.

Already a subscriber? 

Read the full story and more at $9.90/month

Get exclusive reports and insights with more than 500 subscriber-only articles every month

Unlock these benefits

  • All subscriber-only content on ST app and straitstimes.com

  • Easy access any time via ST app on 1 mobile device

  • E-paper with 2-week archive so you won't miss out on content that matters to you

Join ST's Telegram channel and get the latest breaking news delivered to you.

A version of this article appeared in the print edition of The Straits Times on August 24, 2018, with the headline Toughest job at the Asian Games: Being a sporting parent. Subscribe