Thinking Aloud

As violence against women persists, victim blaming needs to stop

Candid conversations, stricter laws a good start as myth persists that it is women who have to insulate themselves from danger

Visitors to Clapham Common, a park in London, looking at floral tributes and messages left there for Ms Sarah Everard, 33, who was found murdered after she disappeared while walking home from Clapham earlier this month. In Singapore, even though it i
Visitors to Clapham Common, a park in London, looking at floral tributes and messages left there for Ms Sarah Everard, 33, who was found murdered after she disappeared while walking home from Clapham earlier this month. In Singapore, even though it is generally safe, there have been several high-profile cases involving sexual harassment and physical violence against women. In tackling the problem, upstream preventive measures are crucial too, says the writer. PHOTO: AGENCE FRANCE-PRESSE
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It was 17 years ago that I was attacked by a young man in England while walking home at 9pm. Drunk and laughing, he punched me and sent me crashing to the pavement.

I was lucky to get away with a few bruises and scrapes. Being a foreign student then, and not wanting to make a fuss, I did not file a police report.

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A version of this article appeared in the print edition of The Sunday Times on March 21, 2021, with the headline As violence against women persists, victim blaming needs to stop. Subscribe