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In many cases, it is not because the issues are unsolvable. It is because both are arguing from different frames of reference.

In many cases, it is not because the issues are unsolvable. It is because both are arguing from different frames of reference.

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SINGAPORE – My wife and I have a unique pastime. Sometimes, we read the relationship-related #AITA threads on Reddit and discuss them.

For the uninitiated, #AITA (Am I The A******) is a popular subreddit where users share personal, interpersonal conflicts and ask the internet to judge who was in the wrong.

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