Coronavirus Generation Covid
How Generation C is facing up to the Covid-19 crisis
Growing up is hard to do - and the pandemic has made it even harder. Baby boomers, born after World War II, are characterised by their strong work ethic. Millennials grew up in the Internet age and developed more globalised mindsets. The last two years, filled with frustration as the virus disrupts life, have given rise to the Covid-19 Generation. The Straits Times reports on how young people in Singapore and across the region have weathered the crisis of their generation.
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THE LITTLE ONES
Adults may have resisted putting on face masks when Covid-19 first hit, but four-year-old Elijah Neville has taken it all in his stride.
"I think for him, it's easy," said his mother, Ms Junia Tan, 43. "They are the most adaptable at that age, and it shows very clearly. We just put on the mask and they copy us."
His biggest pandemic challenge? Going to childcare, instead of being allowed to stay at home with his four older sisters who were attending classes online.
But while Elijah may have objected, his parents were relieved he had an in-person option. Like for most other parents, disruptions to school and work put them under greater pressure to ensure their children were meaningfully engaged at home.
However, experts say nothing quite makes up for face-to-face interaction at that age.
"Online learning is close to impossible for the little kids," said Assistant Professor Yong Ming Lee from the National Institute of Education. "They learn with their hands, so learning is definitely impacted when things go online."
Mr Vital Tan, a manager of children's services at the Circle of Care programme run by Care Corner and supported by the Lien Foundation, added that there have been "clear signs" of increased stress on parents' mental health and bandwidth.
These can impact the quality of parent-child interactions, although the long-term effects on children's social and emotional development remain unclear, he said.
But there have been silver linings. Ms Paige Lee, 33, said working from home has given her more time with her five-year-old daughter, Kimi. "The best thing which happened was to be able to spend a whole lot more time with Kimi, which I really cherished," the strategic partnerships manager said.
THE SCHOOL YEARS
Things get more complicated when children start going to school.
At this age, they begin establishing a clear sense of self apart from their families, said Mr John Shepherd Lim, chief well-being officer at the Singapore Counselling Centre.
But the pandemic has meant that children have had fewer social interactions, which may have implications for their social skills down the road.
"Though growing up in isolation may allow them to be more self-reliant, it is also important for these youths to maintain a healthy level of sociability," Mr Lim said.
On the education front, children from low-income families also tended to face more difficulties with home-based learning, as they would have had to share devices with siblings or parents.
"Many of them were not able to participate initially, which affected their learning and their performance in school," noted a spokesman for community self-help group Sinda. It has distributed 970 headsets, 860 laptops and data SIM cards and 400 tablets to students who lack these items since last year.
Parents like Ms Tan, an entrepreneur, have noticed the impact the pandemic has had on their children. Her seven-year-old daughter Alexis, who started Primary 1 this year, has had to get used to "functional" recess times without the freedom of play that her sisters grew up with.
Danielle, nine, was disappointed when home-based learning was imposed, as she enjoys being active and meeting her friends in school.
And 11-year-old Isabel lamented the cancellation of the traditional Primary 5 camp, which her older sister had told her all about. There is likely to be no camp next year, as she will be sitting the Primary School Leaving Examination.
But they have also become more independent. The oldest, 15-year-old Jean, has taken the initiative to cook for the family and organised library outings for her siblings.
And home-based learning has made Isabel more confident about speaking up in class. "She tends to raise her hand more, but when she's physically in school, she doesn't do that," said Ms Tan.
What is clear is that family support is important. While the pandemic may have worsened mental health for children and parents alike, Centre for Fathering chief executive Bryan Tan suggested that families make a conscious decision to set aside bonding time.
"Evidence suggests that children who communicate with their parents during family meals, around all sorts of topics, show fewer signs of depression and anxiety," he said.
THE YOUNG ADULTS
Ms Yusmarni Mohammad Hasni, who graduates from her diploma course on early childhood development next year, knows exactly what she is going to do next. But her friends - who, unlike her, do not have a government bond to serve - will be at a crossroads.
"I do have friends who are very concerned because they are not too sure what they are going to do after graduation," said the 22-year-old. "Some who were planning to pursue a degree might reconsider."
Dr Yong, who has surveyed more than 2,000 university students since September last year, concluded that pandemic stresses in this age group fall into four categories. Some chafe under social restrictions, while others grapple with uncertainties about their futures. Yet others have health concerns or feel the pinch of resource constraints, in terms of finances or personal space.
"They are at the stage where they are exploring life's possibilities, in relationships and in work," she said. But the pandemic has curtailed these opportunities and given rise to concerns about the future.
"As older adults, our lives are pretty much constant. But younger people have a lot of transitions to cope with on a yearly basis... the pandemic stress is kind of layered onto that."
For those already in the workforce, job security is also a concern.
Voluntary welfare organisations and self-help groups such as Mendaki have been providing career advice for fresh graduates, as well as interim assistance to students who lost their part-time jobs over the past two years.
Even those who kept their jobs have found it difficult to adjust to remote working, when many colleagues are just names on a screen.
"New joiners and young employees found that there is less supervision due to the work-from-home arrangements, and they had to rely upon themselves much more to look for solutions," noted Mr Joshua Yim, chief executive of recruitment firm Achieve Group. "Some of their supervisors are not prepared to train, manage or work remotely with them."
But for some, the enforced slowdown has also meant a chance to think about what truly matters.
"The extra time alone that I had allowed me to plan my life properly, to sit down and ask myself what I really wanted," said university student Arvinth, 23, who declined to reveal his full name.
- Additional reporting by Yeo Shu Hui and Bryan Cheong
Correction note: An earlier version of the story said the Circle of Care programme was under the Lien Foundation. This has been corrected. The Circle of Care is run by Care Corner and supported by the Lien Foundation.
LEARNING IMPACTED
Online learning is close to impossible for the little kids. They learn with their hands, so learning is definitely impacted when things go online.
ASSISTANT PROFESSOR YONG MING LEE, from the National Institute of Education, on how nothing makes up for face-to-face interaction for young children.
HOPING FOR NORMALCY
My biggest hope is for some normalcy to be established, so I can go out without fear of falling sick.
CHERYL CHEONG, 18, in Singapore.
LONGING FOR TRAVEL
I hope the coronavirus goes away, so I can go on an aeroplane.
KIMI LI JIE EN, five, in Singapore.
MISSING OUT ON EXPERIENCES
I missed out on camp. I heard my sister say that during camp, you get to experience sleeping with your friends, kayaking and rock climbing.
ISABEL NEVILLE, 11, in Singapore.
CHANCE TO BOND
I have played with my brother all these months, and my brother has become closer to me.
BAIBOON RIANARCHRIYA, eight, a primary school pupil in Thailand.
OPTIMISTIC ABOUT FUTURE
What I gain from this pandemic is learning about myself and improving my cooking skills by trying out new recipes. And I hope in two years' time, we will be able to go back to our normal lives without masks or worrying about Covid.
ALMAS SUMAIYAH MARDHIAH, 12, a primary school pupil in Malaysia.
MARKING A MILESTONE
I want to have a graduation ceremony... I would really love to not have this one stolen from me.
ZOE TAGERINO, 17, a junior high school student in the Philippines who is supposed to graduate this year.
SEEING AN OPPORTUNITY
I had time to improve my skills in billiards. I hope in the next two years, I can win various billiard competitions... so that I can start my billiard-related business in the future.
GUIDO ANDERLECHT AURELIUS MAXIMUS, 18, a high school student in Indonesia.
FEARS AFTER INFECTION
I kept crying because I thought I was going to die. I had to self-isolate for 14 days. I couldn't speak to or meet anyone.
JUTHARAT SENACHUM, 21, a vocational student in Thailand who caught Covid-19 in June.
FAMILY TIME
It is good for the family. We are all sitting together. Otherwise... nobody has time for everyone in the family to sit together... The negative part is that there was nothing to do at home.
SHIVAM SUNDAR, 21, a university graduate in India.
