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What if we invested in saving marriages instead of normalising divorce?

Our efforts to destigmatise divorce may have gone too far. If a marriage can be salvaged, let’s teach couples how to give it a chance.

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Singaporeans do not take the decision to get divorced lightly, with the median marriage duration before divorce in 2024 being 11.1 years.

Singaporeans do not take the decision to get divorced lightly, with the median marriage duration before divorce in 2024 being 11.1 years.

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Laremy Lee

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Recently released figures from the Department of Statistics (DOS) show 7,382 marriages were dissolved in Singapore in 2024. I never thought mine would be one of them.

In December 2019, I was blindsided when my wife suddenly said, “I never loved you to begin with”, packed her bags and left.

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