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What does it truly mean to be a mother?

The writer, a junior doctor, reflects on how her time on the obstetric wards gave her a new perspective on motherhood – and helped her appreciate her own.

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Mothers need to take care of themselves first to ensure they can best look after their child, says the writer.

The writer encourages mothers to prioritise their well-being so they can effectively care for their children.

ST ILLUSTRATION: MANNY FRANCISCO

Tricia Tan

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“You’ll never understand until you become a mother yourself,” my mother often told me.

As a headstrong teenager, being mothered meant fielding an endless volley of worries. 

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