The bad news about helicopter parenting: It works

New research shows that hyperinvolved parenting is the route to children's success in today's unequal world.

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I recently met a Texan couple whose son was still in diapers. They were angling to get him into a pre-school that feeds into a private preparatory school with a great record for college admissions.

The couple were ambivalent about doing this. They were from immigrant and working-class backgrounds, and had thrived in public schools. In theory, they believed that all children should have an equal chance to succeed. But I suspected that if they got their son a spot in the pre-school, they would take it. These days, such chances are hard to pass up.

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A version of this article appeared in the print edition of The Straits Times on February 13, 2019, with the headline The bad news about helicopter parenting: It works. Subscribe