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Stranger scolds me for neglecting my non-existent children for work

A taxi driver’s tirade gives the writer an insight into how some men expect working mums to behave.

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Women get asked by complete strangers why they are working late when they should be waking up early to take care of the children and breakfast.

Women spend 47 minutes more on housework on average than men each day in the US, and that is not including childcare, of which women also do far more.

ST ILLUSTRATION: MIEL

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Aiyoh, why are you leaving work so late when you need to wake up early to get your children and breakfast ready in the morning, asked a cabby within seconds of meeting me for the first time in his car at almost midnight.

I didn’t know that the price of a ride included an instant nuclear family – which did not exist for me outside of the cabby’s mind – and that I was disappointing family, society and all of mankind just by breathing and being female.

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