Finding Joy

My mother’s unfinished love story showed me that joy doesn’t need a happy ending

We often think joy has to last to be real, but a box of old love letters taught me it can exist in the encounter, not the outcome.

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The writer's mother. Reading her mother's old love letters allowed the writer to see her more fully.

The writer's mother. Reading her mother's old love letters allowed the writer to see her more fully.

PHOTO: COURTESY OF ROSIE WEE

Rosie Wee

When my mother died in 1967 of stomach cancer at the age of 47, she left behind her journal and a stack of letters written before and during World War II by a man called “JP”, who was not my father. 

I was 17 when I found them in a wooden box in her bedroom and read them while seated on the floor, the afternoon light falling across the pages of letters written in JP’s elegant handwriting.

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