Finding Joy

I’m a middle-aged dad with three teens. My mother still asks if I have eaten

As a child, the writer used to take his mother’s cooking for granted. Not any more.

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There is something moving about being almost 50 and knowing that someone has cooked an entire dish simply because you like it, says the writer.

There is something moving about being almost 50 and knowing that someone has cooked an entire dish simply because you like it, says the writer.

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Jared Ng

Sometimes, just before dinner, my mother tells me that I am putting on weight. She pokes my belly and says I am beginning to look like my father. Other times, it’s the opposite – she says I have become too thin.

Her response to both is the same. She feeds me.

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