You can't cure pain if you deny it exists

My stepfather's voice came loud and clear over the whir of the wood splitter he was working 15m away.

"What in the hell is all that wailing?"

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A version of this article appeared in the print edition of The Sunday Times on July 01, 2018, with the headline 'You can't cure pain if you deny it exists'. Print Edition | Subscribe