You can't cure pain if you deny it exists

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My stepfather's voice came loud and clear over the whir of the wood splitter he was working 15m away.

"What in the hell is all that wailing?"

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A version of this article appeared in the print edition of The Sunday Times on July 01, 2018, with the headline You can't cure pain if you deny it exists. Subscribe