Silicon Valley executives are tech fans, just not when it comes to their own kids

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At home, moderation and restraint are the rule for tech parents. Boredom is exalted. Maybe they are onto something.

At home, moderation and restraint are the rule for tech parents. Boredom is exalted. Maybe they are onto something.

ILLUSTRATION: PATRICK LEGER/NYTIMES

David Streitfeld

  • Silicon Valley tech leaders limit their own children's screen time and social media use, reflecting concerns about digital addiction and its negative effects.
  • Recent lawsuits target Meta for allegedly exploiting youth through addictive social media technologies, while researchers warn of risks to children's development.
  • Some tech families choose low-tech or no-tech schooling and lifestyles to foster real-world skills and human learning over digital dependence.

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SAN FRANCISCO – Social media is bad for children.

That was the blunt verdict in a recent spate of high-tech court cases in California, Kentucky and New Mexico. At a moment when Silicon Valley has never been more dominant or ambitious, one of its signature products has all the allure – and the lawsuits – of cigarettes circa 1990.

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