Renew vows to mark 50 years of marriage

Members of the Teow family with Social and Family Development Minister Tan Chuan-Jin, holding seven-month-old Chloe Sek, at the picnic event yesterday. Chloe is a fourth-generation member of the family.
Members of the Teow family with Social and Family Development Minister Tan Chuan-Jin, holding seven-month-old Chloe Sek, at the picnic event yesterday. Chloe is a fourth-generation member of the family.ST PHOTO: ARIFFIN JAMAR

Couples celebrating golden anniversary can attend vow renewal event and receive special certificate from ROM

Couples celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary this year now have a vow renewal event to look forward to when Valentine's Day rolls around. Couples will also, from this year, receive a commemorative marriage certificate for the jubilee wedding anniversary.

These come under a new initiative by the Registry of Marriages (ROM) to encourage strong marriages.

It follows a similar vow renewal event last year, which was held in part to celebrate the 55th anniversary of civil marriages in Singapore. ROM is now making the celebration a permanent event.

Announcing this initiative at a picnic to encourage family bonding yesterday, Minister for Social and Family Development Tan Chuan-Jin said: "I think celebrating their 50th anniversary is just one way of recognising couples and to encourage others to also try to emulate and, in their own way, reach their own key milestones as well."

The picnic, held at Bishan-Ang Mo Kio Park, was attended by about 1,500 families, including one with 31 members across four generations.

The patriarch of the extended family, retiree Teow Sey Hai, 75, and his wife Soh Jock Hoy, 76, have been married for 56 years. The secret to their lasting marriage? Trust each other, said Madam Soh.

"It helps that our four boys are all very good sons," said Mr Teow, formerly a bus ticket inspector.

INSPIRING OTHERS

I think celebrating their 50th anniversary is just one way of recognising couples and to encourage others to also try to emulate and, in their own way, reach their own key milestones as well.

MINISTER FOR SOCIAL AND FAMILY DEVELOPMENT TAN CHUAN-JIN

He said the new initiative by ROM was good and can be encouraging for young couples. "It will set a good example," he added.

In fact, their extended family is so close, they go on annual trips together, with about 70 members taking a plane to Cebu in the Philippines in previous years, and on a ferry to Bintan this year.

Yesterday's picnic was organised by the Families for Life Council as part of the inaugural My Family Weekend, which started on Thursday.

Families spread their mats on the green, with adults chatting and children playing on the grass. There were games and bouncy castles, and a night-time movie screening.

Families for Life Council chairman Ching Wei Hong said Singaporeans need to be more deliberate in nurturing strong and resilient families, by "making time for our family amid our busy schedules, to initiate regular conversations and bond with our immediate and extended families".

"My Family Weekend marks a first for the council in a series of initiatives that aims to encourage more Singaporeans to choose family time, and to remind us not to lose sight of what is important in the midst of our busy lives - our loved ones," he added.

Couples celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary this year can contact ROM on 6338-7808 or e-mail msf_rom@msf.gov.sg to register their interest in the vow renewal. Family members can also nominate eligible couples.

A version of this article appeared in the print edition of The Sunday Times on September 03, 2017, with the headline 'Renew vows to mark 50 years of marriage'. Print Edition | Subscribe