THE following are common ways sex offenders 'groom' new victims.

Increased physical contact, including piggy-back rides and sitting the child on their laps

Having the victim sleep in the same bed

Appearing naked before the victim or watching a pornographic video knowing the child will enter the room

Asking a child for a massage, including a massage around the groin

Being nice to the victim all of a sudden

Being kind to the victim, often offering sweets and toys

Spending time with the victim to find out things they like to do

Helping the victim's parents/family

SIGNS OF POSSIBLE SEXUAL ABUSE

Blood on bedding, clothes or underwear

Scratches, bruises or pain in genital area

Sexual knowledge that is inappropriate for a child of that age - for example, if a preschooler makes references to a 'vagina'

Drawings by child showing people without clothes on or depicting private parts in detail